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  • Hi there!

    I am Heather and this is my personal blog!

    I have blogged on & off since 2003.

    In this season of life, I am taking a break from being a professional photographer to focus on being a better wife and mom.

    I love Jesus. I'm a wife, a mom, and a melanoma survivor!

    I am passionate about health, organics, exercise and sharing my life experiences with others.

Nausea, morning sickness, evening sickness & all day sickness remedies!

Being pregnant with baby #2, I have had worse nausea, morning sickness, evening sickness & all day sickness.  So I’ve tried more remedies.

My goal was to stay away from the nausea prescription available at the OB’s office.

What works for one person won’t for another, but here’s what I’ve used to curb my all-of-the-above pregnancy sickness.

SEABANDS

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The day I found out I was pregnant, Little Dude I I hopped in the car and buzzed over to Walgreens.

I was on a mission for Seabands!  I used them with Little Dude but couldn’t find them – but for $12, it was an investment I was absolutely happy with reinvesting in.

What are Seabands? They are a “bracelet” with a round ball-thingy that fits tightly over an acupressure point on your wrist. It is exactly where an acupuncturist would insert a needle for a nausea treatment (I asked my friend, who is an acupuncturist).  The instructions are in the box and really easy to follow.

Find the crease on your wrist (closest to the palm of your hand, and line up three fingers next to it. Where the 3rd finger rests is where the acupressure ball goes.

After doing some research on YouTube and Pinterest, I found that you can wear the Seabands 24/7.  That’s what I’ve done.

Whether it is the placebo effect or it actually works, I keep them on – because when I get brave and take them off, I throw up. I am praying that I can take them off without tossing my cookies any day now.

-UPDATE- I finally took them off just shy of 13 weeks.  Whew!icon smile Nausea, morning sickness, evening sickness & all day sickness remedies!

 

NUX VOMICA & SEPIA by Boiron

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Huh.The.What? Yep, this is probably a new one to you!  It was to me – I didn’t get to use these last time I was pregnant!

They are homeopathic pellets made by Boiron you chew up and swallow to help with nausea.  They WORK!    Both pellets target a different kind of nausea.  I did not figure this one out myself; my homeopathic nutritionist/nurse friend recommended them to me.

You can get them at Vitamin Cottage (Natural Grocers, Whole Foods, Sprouts, etc.) and they are about $6/vial (which has multiple doses).  Totally and completely worth it!

 

FREQUENT, SMALL SNACKS

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I set up reminders on my phone to eat frequently. Even if it sounded horrible, I eat a small snack to keep my stomach from being empty and to stabilize my blood sugar.  No, I’m not diabetic, but it’s important to fuel your body while it’s working so hard to grow your baby!

I didn’t care for the saltine crackers everyone flocks to.  I had more luck with bagels, mini pitas, English muffins, dry cereal, toast – all the carbs I normally stay away from.  Let’s face it, you do what WORKS when you are pregnant – and that’s all I could handle for a while.

Then I graduated to cottage cheese & applesauce, Greek yogurt (full-fat) with a drizzle of agave nectar, or strawberry yogurt.

Sounds boring but it is quite the decadent feast and victory when it tastes good and stays down!

Once I could tolerate some proteins with the carbs, I made sure each snack/meal had some sort of protein in it.  That really helped me feel better.

Portion control will help, too – just measure out 1/2 a serving size and see how it makes you feel when you eat it.  I use a food scale because I’m very bad at eye-balling food portions.icon smile Nausea, morning sickness, evening sickness & all day sickness remedies!

 

AVOID FOOD SMELLS

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Poor hubby.  He knew this was coming… I put a semi-ban on cooking from the kitchen, asked him to grill as much as possible outside, or (if cooking was in the cards), I make a b-line for bed when he and Little Dude started to prep the food. Not only does food sound unappealing, but the smells of cooking food are no where tear tolerable for me.  Some smells I can even get nauseous over all the way upstairs, as I hide in bed.

Hubby has been working insane hours, so I picked up some microwave dinners for him from Vitamin Cottage.  Not ideal – but he can use them for lunch or dinner and doesn’t have to cook or clean up.  Little Dude is still working on trying new foods, so his dinner has been the basic go-tos: leftovers, sandwich, quesadilla, breakfast for dinner, etc.

So my tip here is obviously to avoid food smells or any smells that make you yak.  Easier said than done, but with a little rearranging and discussing short-term expectations, it is very doable and helpful!

 

HOT TEA

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I found three teas that I’ve enjoyed this pregnancy so far.

Ginger, with a generous squirt of agave nectar, helps when I feel VERY nauseous.

Peppermint helps before or after a meal.

And when I’m bored with both of those, I mix it up with the Pregnancy Tea.

Being pregnant you have to stay hydrated.  You’ll feel overly hydrated at times, but it is better than being dehydrated (which can make you feel more sick).

So when you are sick of plain water, make some tea. If you don’t like hot tea, brew it and let it cool for a yummy iced tea.  If you want to freeze it into ice cubes and make yourself a homemade slushee, DO IT!  If it sounds remotely good, give it a try.  :)

 

ESSENTIAL OILS

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You have to be VERY careful with essential oils because they are SO effective, but I like putting a drop of doTERRA peppermint oil in my water.

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First reason: plain water can get boring.

Second reason: peppermint is beneficial for nausea.

I would NOT recommend using the cheapest oil you can find.  There are different grades of oils – and even those that read “pure” may contain synthetic ingredients. eek!

I specifically use doTERRA because I know it is pure, therapeutic grade, safe and beneficial   Especially while pregnant, you want to make sure there are no fillers or harmful substances in essential oil you use.

I called my OB’s office and specifically ASKED about using peppermint essential oil in my water and the nurse said it was actually a great idea.

Before you try essential oils in your water, or topically, please check with your doctor and read up on what each oil does.  I just ordered Modern Essentials *4th Edition* a Contemporary Guide to the Therapeutic Use of Essential Oils so I can read up on any oil or condition and feel confident about what I’m using.  You don’t want to use an oil that causes contractions, for example (well, I might retract that statement at 40 weeks pregnant).icon wink Nausea, morning sickness, evening sickness & all day sickness remedies!

 

SLEEP

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When all else fails: sleep.  Yes, during the day if at all possible.  Get some blackout curtains or a sleep mask (I love mine!) and go for it!

I would nap when Little Dude napped. If he didn’t nap, I told him I needed to nap so I didn’t throw up and he would kindly say “ok, momma – sleep big!” and have quiet-time in his room (with a baby gate on his door so he wouldn’t wander around & get into trouble). Thank you Lord!

During the early weeks, hubby would get home from work and send me to bed.  The guys would handle dinner and bedtime routine as I quickly drifted off to sleep.  I could easily knock out 12 hours of sleep a night.  Listen to your body and sleep as much as you can.

 

MUSIC

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For me, worship music helped curb the nausea.  Come, Holy Spirit, heal me!icon smile Nausea, morning sickness, evening sickness & all day sickness remedies! NOT joking!

If worship music isn’t your thing, try your favorite kind of music for a good emotional distraction.

 

TAKE A BATH!

I love baths!  When I had melanoma, I was soooo sad I couldn’t soak in the tub (stitches, etc.) because it is one of my favorite ways to de-stress!

200% yes, you have to watch the temperature on your bath water while pregnant.  I’ve read to invest in a non-mercury thermometer and make sure it is below 100 degrees for your bath.

My confession is that I don’t check the temperature but it is NOT hot.

The warm bath allows me to relax mentally and physically.

 

I hope this list helps you!icon smile Nausea, morning sickness, evening sickness & all day sickness remedies!What are some of your favorite and most effective ways to help combat morning sickness, all-day-sickness and pregnancy nausea?icon smile Nausea, morning sickness, evening sickness & all day sickness remedies!

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Kasia - April 26, 2013 - 6:28 pm

clearly I am behind on reading blogs and blogging.

1. you can also use aromatherapy oils under your nose. It’s an old nursing trick to put a couple drops of essential oil in your mask before a big surgery or a particularly bad dressing change.
2. rubbing alcohol. we give alcohol swabs to post op patients to smell for nausea, sometimes it works BETTER than the IV meds
3. I have never tried them or researched them but there are “preggo pops” and the like available at maternity and baby stores that are natural hand candies with ginger, etc to help with nausea
4. home made chicken noodle soup made with ginger root. good for preggo nausea, good for when you are sick, all around good.

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Our Happy News!

I know my blog has been rather silent lately.  It’s for good reason!icon smile Our Happy News!

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by Ali Brannan Photography

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Little Dude is going to be a BIG BROTHER!icon smile Our Happy News!

Yes, even Little Dude “gets it” and is very excited!  Before I even bought the pregnancy test, he came up to me and lifted up my shirt to say “HI BABY!”

I smiled with hope and said “I wish little buddy.”

I thought maybe he picked up on another lady at the library with a baby in her tummy – but then a couple days later, we had this encounter:

Normally, when I am sitting down and he wants me to get something for him (open the pantry, reach a Hotwheel that fell out of reach for him), he’ll say “momma up!” as he grabs my hand and pulls me that direction.

THIS time he said “Momma Baby, UP!  Momma Baby, UP!”

Hmmmm.  I was starting to think maybe he was right, but it was too early to test.

Then the weekend past and Monday rolled around and I went to my normal gym class where we do push-ups on yoga/exercise balls. As I rolled the ball up my torso to change push-up angels, I felt an extreme waive of nausea. I had to leave the class.

What do ya know, Little Dude was RIGHT!  Pregnant!icon smile Our Happy News!

I asked him if Jesus told him there was a baby in momma’s tummy and he just SMILED. Hmmmmmicon wink Our Happy News!

Early on, weeks 5.5-7.5, I was having one-sided “pain” – so they ran an HCG test and did an early ultrasound.  I was actually pretty nervous about it being ectopic. I know, that’s not a great topic to mention in a pregnancy announcement, but I think if we were all a little more open about our experiences, we would find it is more common than it is made out to be.

My HCG levels came back higher than they expected, so then I wondered if we were having TWINS – but the early ultrasound confirmed our little baby is in the right spot to grow and there’s one baby in there!

High HCG did equate more nausea for me. The sensitivities to smells are a big trigger for the “evening sickness” for me.

Yes, it is harder this time around.  I don’t know if it is the hormones or chasing around a 2.5 year old that goes Lightning McQueen speed everywhere he goes, but I would say I’ve been sicker this time.  All-day nausea up until week 11ish, “evening sickness” (instead of morning sickness) and very, very tired.  TOTALLY normal!  I know I’m in good company, but it doesn’t make the queasiness go away!

I will be posting my favorite nausea remedies and tips throughout this pregnancy.  Not that I’m an expert, but I will share what works for me.icon smile Our Happy News!

We are due October 30th – just six weeks after Little Dude’s 3rd birthday.

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by Ali Brannan Photography

Thank you Ali for our family pictures!icon smile Our Happy News!

 

 

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Karen Ziemkowski - April 24, 2013 - 10:07 am

Congrats! So happy for you guys!

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Romans Road steps

A while ago our pastor did a sermon on Romans Road.  It’s been years since I’ve heard anyone preach on it.  It was such a great reminder for me.icon smile Romans Road steps

I decided to take his suggestion and have a handy reference sheet for the steps ready to share.  I tend to use a digital Bible through YouVersion, but if I were to give a Bible as a gift to someone, I would highlight and bookmark these sections!

You can see all of the notes from our pastor’s sermon here.

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My Heavenly Father is… list from Pinterest

Have you seen the “My Father Is” list from Pinterest?

Someone did their homework and wrote characteristics of God and the scripture reference to back them up!

Totally awesome & if I could credit them, I would.

I decided to look up the verses to have them as, not only a quick reference, but something I can read when I need to be reminded of the Lord’s character.

I am going to print it out and keep it handy!icon smile My Heavenly Father is... list from Pinterest

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Another skin check: update (9 months post melanoma removal)

In July (2012) I had melanoma removal on my right leg, and at that point, my dermatologist said she would see me every 3 months for a year, every 6 months the second year and then annually thereafter – as long as they didn’t find any more skin cancer.

October’s visit went smoothly and she didn’t find anything of concern.

January’s visit was a little more stressful: she did a punch-hole biopsy of a freckle that was right next to the melanoma removal.  Happily,The Freckle 2.0 was atypical but not cancerous.  Whew!

I took this picture of my scars last week – the larger scar (from melanoma removal) started as a 4-inch incision and has shrunk down and faded over the last 9 months.  The smaller scar next to it is from January’s atypical biopsy.

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Fast forward to this last Tuesday and it was time for another full-body skin check.  I was feeling a little more experienced with the process, so I did my best to “sit on the fence” before I jumped to one side concluding I either did or did NOT have suspicious freckles to biopsy.  I couldn’t have done it without prayer and support of those praying along side me.

My dermatologist closely investigating my freckle-map and asked her assistant to take notes of the size, shape, color of general areas.  She didn’t find any suspicious spots this time! Praise God!

My next skin check is in July.  It’s hard to believe that will bookmark a YEAR since my diagnosis and removal.  I am such a different person because this melanoma journey.  I feel like my thirst for God has increased – yet I admit I don’t understand Him all the time.  We aren’t supposed to.  I do know that He is my comfort, my healer, guide and my peace!  I pray nearly every day for Him to give us the opportunity to share His love with others.  The opportunity comes and I find because of my melanoma experience, I actually have more COURAGE to share what God has been doing in my life.  Going forward, I would share what He is doing whether I’m sick or healthy – but this was certainly the kick in the pants I needed to prioritize that request from Him.

I feel like my focus has completely transformed.  I care less about what people think of me and care more about what God thinks of me.

When the TV is on, I feel so disconnected from the majority of what airs.  Put another way, it almost feels like I get to choose between the country and the city and would rather the slower pace of life.

I enjoy having down time (with my family and for myself) and not being continuously hooked up to social media.  It is important to me to feel like I need to have friends over, rather than hop online for a quick social-media-fix.

I like falling asleep when the sun goes down, rather than staying up late then struggling with insomnia all in the same night.

My photography sabbatical is going very well.  I feel like taking a step back has helped me realize where my strongholds were at home and with family life.  It might just be God’s timing or it might be that I’m finally listening, but I’ve been able to hear God say “do this” and while I don’t feel I qualify, have followed through and enjoyed new experiences.  Too vague for you?

In February, our worship pastor held auditions for worship band and I immediately felt God said “do this.”  I thought “ok, but only because you said to.  You know I enjoy singing but am not the best.”  A couple weeks ago, I found myself on stage, singing into a microphone and NOT nervous.  WHAT?!  I sang in high school.  I sing in the shower.  We listen to & sing along with worship music at home.  I have never been on stage singing in that capacity, but through God, I did.  And I knew the sound guy could turn me down when I goofed.  ;)  I would have never found myself saying yes to this blessing before – one, because I didn’t listen to God and two, because band practice is on a day of the week I have spent the last 7 years photographing people on.

So God can use us even when we mess up!

Another example is being available, willing & able to share my health perspective and melanoma journey at a women’s brunch at church and also at MOPS.

This is coming from the shy & weary student who absolutely dreaded public speaking BOTH times I had to take it (high school & college).

It’s amazing how God transforms us… when we are willing!

Stay tuned for another big update… coming soon!icon smile Another skin check: update (9 months post melanoma removal)

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Kasia - April 26, 2013 - 6:35 pm

:] I also sing in our church’s worship choir, and it is SUCH an amazing blessing. I can be up past my bedtime and still come home refreshed. I find myself singing worship songs at work which is what I need to push through a rough day and remember to be the salt and the light there :] I am SO glad God blessed you (and me for that matter) with the courage to join the worship team!!!!!

Also PTL for a clear check up!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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